The Ultimate Threesome Sex Guide: How To Find A Partner, Which Toys And Positions To Use

Threesome Sex

It is a reality that in the modern era, fantasies of sex fantasies and things spicy in sex keep popping up in people's minds, and a threesome is one of them.

Yes, many people have a desire to have a threesome sex relationship, but there is a lot of difficulty and hesitation in doing it, there are also many questions and concerns due to which they are not able to do so. You've always envisioned threesome sex but never tried.

Do you want to know how to take your threesome sex relationship to the next level? Threesomes - unless you are lucky enough to live with or have the support of two other people with whom you want to have threesome sex. You may be away from it, but if you imagine it and yearn to live it, then we are determined to solve all your worries. So you can be sure, you know how to start, which position is best for you, which toys to use, and so on. [Read: Why Do Some People Like To Have Sex In Public]

Involvement Of Sexes In Threesome Sex Relationship: Different Types Of Threesome

There is no one set way of having threesome sex relationships: movies, TV shows, or any other adult program often depict only threesomes as occurring between two women and one man, but threesome sex in any group of three people. Maybe, regardless of your gender identity or sexuality, it doesn't matter whether you are of the same gender or different.

  • However, your threesome experience could possibly be different depending on the relationships you have with other people.
  • You can go for a threesome with two other strangers.
  • But often threesome sex takes place between a couple and a third party which can be a stranger or someone outside.
  • Or the third party could be someone close to you.

How To Find The Special One (Partner) For A Threesome

Modern time is technology, which does all your work sitting at home. Today the internet is in everyone's hands, and there are many websites and apps on the internet that will go a long way in finding a couple or partner for your threesome sex fantasy.

All you have to do is create a profile on these websites and apps, and things will be easy. These websites and apps allow you to as a couple or add one to you, and swipe on a third person - and you can even tag threesome sex as one of your interests. [Read: The Complete Guide To Pegging In Sex]

Be Sure To Discuss The Boundaries Thoroughly Before Going Into Threesome Sex Relationships

Threesome sex is not a normal sexual relationship, and one or all parties may be unaware of it, That's why it becomes very important to know and be sure what your limits are. To what extent are your expectations, it is better for all parties involved in a threesome to be on the same page and scenario, so try to find out, make sure they all match each other's views, and If needed, you can stop without any hindrance.

With a couple, it's important to have a conversation about why you want to invite a third person, this will help you understand whether you're looking for what you're looking for, or something different?

You also need to establish some absolute ground rules before going into a threesome. For example, setting some rules on safe sex, and choosing some safe words. Whether you are personally acquainted with the third person, or not. And what if the third person likes one person more than the other? Do you want to meet the third person later as well? One time or on a regular basis? Is friendship outside of sexual contact allowed or not? Is your third-person worthy of trust or not? What effect might this sex relationship have on your relationships? And so on.

Whether it's your first threesome relationship, or you're a seasoned pro, meeting in a previously non-sexual environment can always be a good idea. That way, if you get any bad vibes or feel uncomfortable, you can safely walk out of it.

There's no one way to have a threesome, it's best to go with whatever works best for you and is comfortable with everyone in the room or during the relationship. [Read: How To Make A Girl Squirt]

Some Of The Best And Most Important Sex Positions For A Threesome

Whether you want to be a donor, a recipient, or both, each one probably has an equal and significant contribution to threesome sex, and different sex positions require changing.

The positions used in a threesome depend on what type of participation you feel comfortable in, or what you want. So below are some very important positions for your convenience that you can try to create a successful threesome.

Watch And Enjoy

There may be two active participants and one partner, who can see two people having sex. There can be a female/male, or two females, or even two males, having sex. And the watcher can be any man or woman.

In simple language, one partner may be passive while the other two partners are performing.

Mutual Threesome Masturbation

In this position you engage in whatever configuration feels comfortable to you – you can do this in bed, on the couch, or go to the shower, etc. And touch yourself and each other. They can lead each other to orgasm through masturbation or blowjobs (mouth sex). If you want, you can go even further when you are engaged and heated and have sex.

Interpersonal masturbation not only allows you all to feel pleasure at the same time, but it's also a warm and nice way to show each other how much you love to be touched.

Doggy Blowjob (Mouth-Oral Sex)

In this position, one person has sex with one partner in a doggy style, and the third lies in the front. She may also lick the male's testicles, or play. If she wants, she can also lie down with her head on the other side. And a woman having sex in a doggy position can give oral sex to the partner lying down. This is a good position for people who are nervous about other threesomes positioning or don't like seeing each other much.

Switch Button Threesome Sex Position

In this, both your partners can stand facing away from you. You lubricate your hands and start rubbing and stroking one of the vulva/penis of your sacrum. When the other can't take it, they use a safe word switch, and you start over on them.

If you want to go deeper, you can do something for a little spanking/another suffering too, and this can be done in turn by all three mates. This is partly a chance to fuck everyone.

Face Fuck Threesome

Face fuck is an important position. To do this, lie on your back with your knees bent and your head on a pillow, then one of your partners can walk down on you while the other caresses, rubs, and pats your breasts so that you face them. Can give a massage. It allows you to do it all at once and offers a great view.

Double Penetration Cowgirl Sex Position

If you really want to go with your M+M+F threesome relationship, aim for double penetration. To get yourself into the correct position, have a person lie on their back on the edge of the bed, making sure their feet are on the edge. Then you come over them and will ride cowgirl style. The third person will stand behind you or kneel behind you and enter you.

Many people fantasize about double penetration, this position can be extremely hot. However, as you adjust, and correct the angles, it does require a little more smoothness and a lot of patience. But it is fun and suitable for everyone. So it might be good to give it a try.

Circular Sex Position

The three of you will perform mouth sex (blowjobs) while leaning on each other. Resting their heads on each other's inner thighs, come in the shape of a circle. In this position, all of you will get to share the experience of giving and receiving sexual pleasure equally. You can also use it as a way to take a break before or after a slightly complicated or tiring situation.

Twisty Stretch Threeway

To do this position, lie on your back with your legs hanging from the edge of the bed. One partner will stand between your legs and enter your anus or vagina, while a third partner will stand you facing the person standing to play with your vagina. In this position, most of the focus is on women, which gives them a great orgasm. And what could be better?

Oral Sex Switch

To do this, have your partner stand in front of you, giving oral sex to each of them. When you're giving one oral, use your hand on the other. If you love giving oral sex, this is a fun arrangement for you. This will allow you to join a game and be the main focus.

High Five Knee Sex Position

It can be considered a unique sex position. To do a high five threesome, get down on your hands and knees and allow one person to enter your vagina/anus from behind with a penis or strap-on while the other person kneels in front of you. And you give oral sex to your kneeling partner.

In this, your partners will get a chance to make eye contact, it will also give you a chance to make eye contact with the other person. It raises the level of sexuality, while you enjoy being in the middle. If your partner wants to see but doesn't want to hook up with anyone other than you, then this sex position will give a great and wild experience.

Anal Scene Sex Position

This includes actually vaginal peeping while looking at the anus, or penetration and sex while looking at the anus. Everyone gets a good anal view experience if you arrange yourself like this: the male partner or the partner wearing the strap-on enters you from behind you, and your leg is wrapped around their hips behind. The other woman lies on her back, so her vagina is within kissing/licking distance of your mouth. It gives an adventurous and wild threesome sex pleasure.

Puppet Sex Position

Have two partners (possibly 2 women) lie down next to each other and when the man kneels between you, you can give his penis and testicles together, and both use your fingers to point towards the target, whether in the anus or vagina. In this position, as you go further, deeper, you can create a superhot sexy synergy, where all three of you have sensual moans and sensations, and it gives a wonderful experience without penetration.

Double Down Engagement

It's an M+M+F or M+F+F classic sex style - the position isn't too difficult, and everyone is equally involved, M lies on their back while an F mounts their penis, and the other sits on their mouth. Or there are two F's so both can smack into each other, and heat up the game, while the M is based on what they've always imagined. During the trade-off alternate regularly switch with the second F.

Sideliner Threesome Sex Position

If you are going into a threesome for the first time, start in a scenario that allows you to observe before joining, and saves you the embarrassment. Being a doggy is great if you're shy because it's easy to hide behind and see. Use a hand or toy on your own and, when/if you feel comfortable, go for breast squeezing, feeling the male partner's penis as it slides into the other female.

Reverse High Five Threesome Position

Lie on your back with your legs apart from the high five, while the other two fall into a doggy style position, and give you oral sex. This is a great configuration for guys who want to have anal sex during M+M+F threesomes. If you enjoy oral sex more than penetration, that's great.

Threesome Sex With Sex Toys

Toys play an important role during threesome sex, it contributes significantly to the three partners achieving fullness and ecstasy, providing extra pleasure.

  • Magic Wand Vibrator

The best and hottest sex toy for threesome is the Magic Wand Vibrator. Wand vibrators are wonderful tools to give extras to threesomes, as you can direct the vibrations at the genitals and other erogenous zones, whether the person has a vulva or penis. It can be used by any of the three companions and offers a superior pleasure.

  • Clit Massager Wand Vibrator

If you have 2 women then it is very effective in giving massages to the clit and giving orgasm without penetration. It can also stimulate a third male partner. He can give clit massages to both women, and from your sensuality, he gets to feel sexier himself.

  • Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring

This works as a bonus for the man when there are two female partners, so it is beneficial to include it in the threesome.

  • Strap-On

If all involved in the threesome are women then of course the strap-on becomes important for penetration. Or even if there are 2 women, its use is important. By including this you can take your threesome to a different level.

  • G-Spot Dildo

This sex toy is a must for women in threesomes who like to enjoy the G-spot. So do include it.

Roleplay Threesome Sex

The pleasure in group sex or threesome becomes even more so when you role play. When everyone agrees on the scenario that will be played out during sex. You can choose to enhance your roles, dress up or set up space to speak in different accents. And there's no limit to how role-playing can shape up. So threesome sex with roleplay can be a great experience.

Conclusion

Like any sexual encounter, it's important to make sure you're comfortable with everyone involved. And for this investigation and dialogue are necessary.

Ask questions, and discuss each other's concerns, is it okay to do so? Do you like it? Do you want to continue? Would you like to do something else? And if someone feels uncomfortable, stop.

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